In the United States we have a broad mix of cultures and traditions. Many are obvious in the churches we go to, or the sports we watch, or the food we eat. Others, like circumcision, are so far below the surface we seldom think about them. Then you find out you are having a son. Suddenly, something that never crossed your mind, never made it to the conversation, might be an issue. Our auhtors try to tackle the surprisingly difficult debate below, without being Judgey.